It makes me wonder why somebody would request you to pay up to date. Just because you put up a site doesn't mean you should charge people for such a thing. It's absolute meanness. We should encourage people to fall in love more often rather than discourage that through charging lots of money.
Most of the dating sites I make are free to use. I believe in the future being free. I believe we as webmasters should look for alternative ways of making money rather than charging our users everyday.
Don't ever pay for love. Imagine spending all your money on some dating site and you never get to date the girls. It would not only break your heart but also burn a hole in your pocket.
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All the best in finding your soul-mate.